Motherhood does not always come easy. Some women struggle to fall pregnant, others face challenges after the birth with post-natal depression, coping with the severe sleep deprivation and the sudden, life change that accompanies the joyous moment of welcoming a baby into our lives.
Today's Success Story Mum has faced some difficult times before carrying a beautiful little girl to term. On the other side of her ordeal, she found light and happiness again, along with the urge and inspiration to begin a new business venture. Her daughter was born healthy in March, and thus the popular online boutique, Daffodil Lane was conceived.
Meet Mum of one, Jessica Rogers. This is her inspiring story:
Hi, My Name is Jessica and this is my story, from wife, to Mother and now business woman.
It starts well before
Daffodil Lane was even a thought. After finally getting married in 2010, we were ready to start a family straight away. However, being told I wouldn’t fall pregnant due to P.C.O.S and Endometriosis we knew it was going to be a long road. After going to the doctors we were waiting to arrange an appointment with a specialist, the night before we had to go and have tests done on the 12th of July 2010 I did a positive pregnancy test, a mistake I was sure. I told my husband but suggested we not get to excited. I did another with the same result, we decided to sit on it for a few days and not tell a soul... YEAH RIGHT! I couldn't even look my mum in the eye she knew something was up!
When I came home early from the next day she asked what was up – I told her I think I had a bug, and she looked at me and said “are you sure your not pregnant” “NO” I quickly replied, followed by “OK, yes but don’t tell anyone I told you! “ Tears flowed and within about 1.23 seconds mum was on the phone to a friend whose husband was a obstetrician to make an appointment to be sure.
Well sure enough it was true we were pregnant! Due date the 16/03/2011. I was working almost full time (between 30 and 35 hours) and time FLEW. Before we knew it, it was Christmas I was huge and we were getting a little excited we had made that crucial 26 week mark and passed with flying colours. Before we knew it I was 35 weeks pregnant finishing up work and can you believe it moving house. In 38 + degree heat and an oven on 250 degrees celcius inside me it was hot and my “nesting” was well over due, within 1 weekend and a full day Monday, and of course the help of my family, we were unpacked and settled in – EVEN the nursery! Nerves began to set in, are we ready? Is everything going to go ok, Oh goodness, I have to give birth!
Due to being a high risk pregnancy my local obstetrician had passed me onto the hospital a little over an hour away, they didn’t want me going into labour away from them so the decision was made to induce. My induction date came and went (thank goodness they delayed it). A second delay and an appointment the day after my due date finally gave us a set date of Sunday the 20th of March. OUR FIRST WEDDING ANNIVERSARY! On Monday the 21st at 11.44pm our beautiful little Alyssa was born, 3.395Kg, 50cm long and completely perfect.
Thinking back, the next 6 weeks were are a blur. Lots of nappies, tears (from everyone) and long nights thinking I was crazy, but then the amazing happened. I woke up and the sun was up. It wasn't 1am; it wasn't 3am; it wasn’t even 6am, it was 9.30am in the morning! A full 12 hours sleep, more then I had had in the previous 7 weeks put together I was sure! Night after night it kept happening and before I knew it I could climb mount Everest! Or even better consider starting my own business!
How the business started...
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My daughter's birth month inspired me. |
So the research began. Already being a shopaholic I was in my element, researching suppliers and wholesalers, makers and crafters. I even got my mum to teach me to applique! I even convinced her to crochet for me---she had no idea what she was going to be in for! We were off and racing, a few more months passed and a few dollars had been spent. We had stock, we had a name, now what? After starting my
Facebook page and inviting my friends, things grew from there. We began inviting more and more people, participated in some charity auctions and slowly our name got out there.
There were and still are lots of late nights, lots of long days, and lots of triumphs and trials. My little new born turned into a little baby, and my little baby began crawling before she was even 6 months old! Getting into everything and climbing up furniture means I can no longer leave the room and know she will be there when I get back. Finding a balance between Wife, Mother and business woman is tough. It is easy to put the baby to bed and go into your work room and not come out until 2am. Meanwhile, your husband has been left on his own every night for an entire week and is feeling a little unloved himself. It is then easy to spend so much time with him, work gets behind and you end up with twice as much to get done!
We also began weekend markets, which usually means Saturday is prep day and Sunday is market day. A 5am start and 5pm home time is the usual. Sometimes longer hours are needed. Some days are wonderful and some leave you deflated and flat. It is then that I jump onto
Facebook and see my beautiful
likers leaving me sweet messages and everything seems OK again.
I must say, the beautiful customers, and amazing business women that I have met along the way make it even more worth it. I have developed some incredible friendships with complete strangers, woman who’s faces I have never seen and voices I have never heard, yet I know them so well I tell them more then my own friends who I see face to face! We each share a common thing, we each aspire to run a successful and loving business.
It is a sacrifice, for both myself and my family, but it is one I hope to be worth every late night and early morning. I have never had a “job” I would call a career and I have never had one I have loved as much as I love running ‘
Daffodil Lane’. It is my heart and soul, and I am working very hard to create a store that everyone will love for a long time.
You can currently find us at
www.facebook.com/daffodillane and hopefully come this Christmas find us online at
www.daffodillane.com.au ! That’s right we are working on a proper website!
So, That is our story, and can you believe it is all in less then two years? What an insane ride we are on, but I wouldn’t have it any other way!
Daffodil Lane is only 3 going on 4 months old but I hope one day to have my sign say ‘Daffodil Lane’ est 2011 and people still loving what we bring you in 100 years time, when I am gone and my family are carrying on our legacy. If you are going to dream, you should always dream big!
Regards,
Jessica Rogers
Daffodil Lane
Name: Jess Rogers
Email:
daffodilLane@hotmail.com
Phone: 0411 281 574
Website:
www.daffodillane.com.au
Facebook:
www.facebook.com/daffodillane
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